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Friday, September 30, 2016

Flee

No ifs ands or buts,
We shall live as how He writes.

Life rolls.
Life bounces.
In any or in all,
We own no ounces.

That shepherd 
Is of little words.
Much intention 
Lacking attention.
Whilst he longs for a chance to give,
The breathes flee he did not see.

Friday, September 23, 2016

Why

Why do you want to do that to your own heart.


Thursday, September 22, 2016

Decide.

One coin with two sides
Many points one can't decide.
Head tail, toss and see,
Leave her trail, so she can be.

The standards

"The standard you walk past is the standard you accept."

Read that quote in the neonatal ward this morning. Quoted on a poster encouraging people to act upon misdoings they happen to witness.

Deep, strong quote.

Wednesday, September 14, 2016

Ask

It is actually really easy to misunderstand, and to jump into conclusion.
Ask and seek clarification.

I believe that most people have good intention.
And many people do not like to lie.

Even if that person gives conflicting statements, ask "I thought you said this last time?".
Cause you might have misunderstood the first statement in the first instance.

Even if you claim to see things with your own eyes, ask regardless.
Sure, they say seeing is believing.
But being human, "believing is seeing" too.

Ask.
Just ask.


Wednesday, September 7, 2016

Investing in Relationship

Was checking one of my favourite blogs for her brownies recipe and found a very sweet sharing by the author on building community and her childhood experience  :)

Full blogpost:
http://weekofmenus.blogspot.co.uk/2016/09/brownies-having-community.html?m=1

Here's a snippet:

But I'll give the much credit to one man, one of my father's friends who probably was the greatest engineer of this amazing community of my childhood.  Dr. S planted his roots first in California with his family, and when he saw the opportunities here - he told all of his Korean medical school buddies to come join him.  All of the families had been scattered in various locations in the US, my own family in Illinois, and he encouraged his friends to come West.  I have no idea what the conversation was like, but knowing him, I know that he was warm, inviting, and persuasive.  And he knew what he wanted and he wanted his friends to feel success and he wanted his friends nearby.

I'm certain that it is Dr. S's efforts those 40 plus years ago that have paved the way for my parents' rich and full lives in retirement.  My dad still calls up his friends, they have a standing regular weekly golf game, and I think, because of technology, they even text each other. When they gather (which they do still often) there is the familiar banter and joy of many years of knowing one another.  They have seen each other through hard times, gone to the weddings of their friends' children, and rejoiced together at the births of grandchildren. 

And more than anything, this experience has taught me the importance of investing in those relationships that will take you to your later years.  Being gracious, kind, loving, community minded, or dare I say "Village" minded ultimately is an investment in the graciousness and fullness of your later life.  Valuing human relationships - the way you treat others and those around you profoundly affects not only you, but also your children and the relationships they build.  If they see you building your community, they will also want their own.  If they see you treating your friends as treasures - as people that you wish to surround yourself with and grow old with, they will also want the same - and that, I think is one important value that parents can teach their children.

Ahahaa. That's quite a long snippet. Anyway I'm inspired.💪🏻
We can all be Dr S!

Patients and Perception

A lot of patients nowadays come in with presenting complaints which are functional in nature, or rather psychological. Not that they are mengada-ngada, no.

Dr Stewart in clinic today said that it is mainly due to people's perception nowadays that is, unless we are free of any symptom, there is something wrong with us somewhere . Back in the old days, people don't bother much if they have slight pain or discomfort, now people concern about everything. Well, that is good in a way because that just shows how people are more health-conscious. Downsides to that of course, are the time and financial costs which come with that plus the unnecessary anxiety. 

Dr Stewart told me how most of the times, our roles as a doctors are not to treat physical conditions but to treat people's perception. No wonder he talks to the patients so kindly and never complains. And it makes perfect sense. These patients are worried for real (okay fine, some maybe are pretentious but let's not talk about those minority). What you got to do is to investigate if there is indication for that, treat if needed, and if not reassure them sensibly.

I asked him if the free healthcare by NHS nurtures this whole any-problem-see-the-doctor behaviour. He said, yes, that plus the availability of the private healthcare too. When patients are not satisfied with how they are treated  under the NHS, those who can afford go see the private services and pay for endless investigation until someone find something or someone said what they want to hear. It's really bad for the patients. They have really thick medical files, spend so much money and can't enjoy their lives as much as they'd like to. Oh dear, a heart with endless worry surely is a big test, innit? 

Saturday, September 3, 2016

Blog: Doctor in Malaysia

Park here to be visited later:
https://pagalavan.com

Dhuha

Going through hard time in life is actually part of life.
Certain attitudes only bloom in certain situations.
Gratitude-Only when certain things are taken from you, then only you start to have gratitude over what you had or have.
Sabr-if life is always easy you would never learn to have sabr.

Your Lord Has Not Forsaken You -- Surah Ad Duha By Nouman Ali Khan

Sun

The light of the sun can be soothing or scorching.
Choose the right time.

Friday, September 2, 2016

Talking.

I feel bad when I talk or write too much.
Takut Allah uji.

Rasa taknak cakap dah setahun.

Only speak when your words are more beautiful than silence, Nana.
And oh, walk the talk.